Dark Nights of the Soul (Psalm 6:6)

I am weary with my moaning; every night I flood my bed with tears; I drench my couch with my weeping.

Psalm 6:6
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There is such a thing as a “dark night of the soul” as described in this psalm. Likely each of us will experience at least one of these periods in our lives. The onset of a dark night may come from tragedy in your life. Perhaps you have lost one precious to you—a child, parent, or spouse. Certainly the grief towers down on you; every thought seems to circle like a vulture upon your loss, hunting you, preying you down. Memories are shadowy ghosts reminding you of a face, a laugh, a touch, a voice, you will never experience again. The question in these dark nights will often be: “why were they taken from me?”

Or perhaps your dark night is the result of the loss of position, material possession, or general purpose in life. You were let go from your job. You do not know when or if the money will come in. What is the measure of your life? Heaping our identity and worth in these things can crumple us when, due to the uncertainties of life, our buildings come crashing down. The question in these dark nights will attack our reason for living: “what is my life worth anymore?”

Perhaps for some of you, relational distress and dysfunction have caused you to flood your bed with tears. Your spouse has left you for another, or simply traded in years of marriage for a “pursuit of happiness.” Or your parents have forsaken you, leaving you bitter and confused. Or a child has rebelled and wandered away, piercing you with pangs of paternal grief. The seepage of open wounds make you flinch in pain whenever that person is mentioned. Though the fault may be on the other person, the lingering question will always be, “did I do something wrong?”

Finally, for some of us, a dark night will seem to have no source at all, coming only from a deep depression of our minds and souls. The mental anguish blasts us down on our face. The weight of despair chokes us, leaving us wheezing for breath. The sinister thoughts sneak in like unwelcome house guests. And the worst part: we do not know why we are feeling this way. The expression of our sorrow is a bed full of tears. The haunting question will echo David’s cry: “But you, O Lord—how long?” (v.3)

Why do we mention all of these fountains of sorrow? Because no one’s experience in a dark night is completely the same. Though we all will travail through them, our divots and valleys are contoured differently. But the one similarity that should comfort us all is that we have all been through them, and even greater, there is One who is able to walk with each of us particularly through our “valley of the shadow of death” (Ps 23:4).

Secondly, we mention all of these because we each need a particular word of sustaining grace through them. You need to have your dark night named and addressed before you can receive the consoling touch of Jesus in your life. Jesus was no stranger to loss of life (Jn 11). He was no stranger to inner anguish and sorrow (Mt 26:38). He was not immune to betrayal and desertion. The very hands that made the world are willing to lift your head and wipe away your tears.

Lastly, sometimes you just need to hear that it is okay to grieve and weep. Jesus does not expect you to bind it all up and “get it together” before you come to Him. If all you have are tears for the moment, for the day, for the month, or for the year—then bring them. Gospel grace reassures you today that “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit” (Ps. 34:18). The Light of the world is no stranger to your darkness. In truth, He has drawn very near.

More Joy (Psalm 4:7)

You have put more joy in my heart than they have when their grain and wine abound.

Psalm 4:7
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The content of Christian joy is never placed in material possessions or temporal prosperity. Rather, it is always placed in the firm foundation of God’s character to us in Jesus. 

Notice the contrast in this verse: while grain and wine abound for those who do not know God, David, without those things, still has more joy than them. It must be therefore that David’s source of joy is not based on the whimsy securement of physical pleasure, but on who he knows his God to be. Even if he doesn’t have luxury, physical safety, good health, or a good reputation in this life—he has his God, and this is enough. 

Jesus told his disciples in John 16:22 that “no one will take your joy from you.” How could this be true if our joy was based on something that could be gone tomorrow? Jesus is centering our hearts on the eternal. He is grounding our lives—what we worship, what we put our hope in, where we derive satisfaction—in Himself. 

Reader, this world will always leave you gasping for joy. Others can never live up to who you wish they were. You will never be all you desire to be. The world is in turmoil, there are forces outside your control—like sickness, suffering and sorrow—which daily intrude your self-contrived plans for the “good life.” When this happens, the first temptation is to narrow your focus on yourself and say “why me?” Somehow, we convince ourselves we are entitled to a life without trouble. But what if true joy can be had even with these things?

Get this: David had much to lack in this verse, but he still had more joy. So when our lives seemingly lack in whatever area we wish they wouldn’t, we must turn our gaze to what we have in God. The reason why David was satisfied is because he knew that God’s love for him was never-ceasing. As those in Christ, we know that God is for us, with us, and working all things together for our good. He knows what is best for us, so when unexpected trials and sufferings come, we are reminded by James to “count it all joy…when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness” (Jas 1:2-3). Indeed, we are able to count our trials and sufferings as joy because we know that God, in His infinite wisdom, love and sovereignty, is able to use them for our good. And our ultimate good is to be made more like Jesus. 

So when Jesus tells you that “no one will take your joy from you,” this is only possible if the entirety of your being is focused on Jesus Himself. For He—as the loving, tender, good Shepherd—never changes. And if He never changes, then your joy is secure. Not that your life will be free from trouble, or that you’ll never be sad, but that you can always have joy. 

And often that perspective is what makes all the difference.

The Lifter of Your Head (Psalm 3:3)

But you, O LORD, are a shield about me, my glory and the lifter of my head.

Psalm 3:3
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There are three descriptions of who the Lord is for you in this verse.

First, He is a shield about you. David, the psalmist-King, knew the dangers and anxieties of war. Constantly escaping from evil, vulnerable to violence, he knew his only security came from the Lord’s sovereign protection. David knew the function of a shield—to be a wall of protection between him and an oncoming threat. This word-picture does not change for us: God is our shield, our fortress, our protection. As it is written elsewhere, we can hide “in the shadow of his wings” (Ps 17:8). Though God’s shielding of us is not physical, that is, seen with our eyes, it is nonetheless powerful. God, in infinite power and wisdom, is able to protect us through the working of His sovereign providence. If you are a child of God through Jesus Christ, “who shall bring any charge against God’s elect?” (Rm 8:33). Though our enemies may look more like lies against our salvation, guilt from the devil, and persecution for living for Christ—God is our shield ever more.

Second, God is your glory. What reputations do we seek apart from the Lord? What securities do we build our lives upon that are not God? David knew that if everything was stripped away—his kingdom, how others perceived him, his family—he still had God as his glory. To have God as our glory is to know the infinite worth we have in Him despite what is happening around or within us. David knew God would vindicate him, for he did not place his worth in his own strength or abilities, but in the Creator Himself. Is all of your life set, fixated—obsessed—with being about God? Do you know who you are in Christ, all the promises laid out for you in Scripture? For God to be your glory, He must be your everything—or else He is secondary to another competing glory in your life.

Finally, God is the lifter of your head. What a tender promise we have here. There will surely be times we cannot lift our own heads from sorrow, despondency, fear, shame, anxiety, or grief. There will be times we tremble under panic, not knowing how to go one more day. But God—our great, merciful, slow-to-anger, and rich-in-love God—is the lifter of our heads. This is not something He only does once in a while; no, it is who He is. He is the lifter. It is what He does. Are you downcast today? It is ok; in due time the Lord will lift your eyes for you. Are you scared for your future? Do not fear; God has your days within His hands. His tender hand reaches down, softly pulls your chin up, so that you look at Him. God is in the business of reorienting our often-limited sight, lifting our heads to see Him, who He is for us in Christ, His everlasting love, protection, care, and security. Turn your eyes to Jesus today!

So whatever comes, God is your shield, your glory, and the lifter of your head. What encouragement we find in our great God!

Podcast #24 – We Walk By Faith (2 Cor. 5:6-10)

Text: 6 So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, 7 for we walk by faith, not by sight. 8 Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. 9 So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him. 10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.

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The Rightful King (Psalm 2:1)

Why do the nations rage and the peoples plot in vain?

Psalm 2:1
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There will undoubtedly be times in life we will ask this question. If God is in control, why does it seem like sometimes He is not? The chaos of the world, the godlessness of the present age, the havoc wreaked by those in power — why do the nations rage? 

The context of this psalm is a royal coronation for the King of Israel. It was written as an assurance that, although the surrounding nations plot against Yahweh and his “Anointed” one (v.2), the LORD’s chosen King will be established. God tells this King: “You are my Son; today I have begotten you…I will make the nations your heritage, and the ends of the earth your possession” (vv.7-8). The other kings of the earth will “Kiss the Son,” and serve God with fear, and “rejoice with trembling” (vv.11-12). Clearly, God’s appointed King is in control. The nations and people rage in futility, for the King of Israel has command.

But when we read the Old Testament, we know that the kings of Israel—whoever may have fit into this psalm—fell short of it. David, Solomon, and all those who followed him, were not the King who would sit on the throne forever. This psalm must not refer to them, therefore, but to Someone greater, Someone stronger—the better and truer King of Israel. 

Yes, this psalm is all about Jesus. 

He is the “Anointed” one, the Messiah who comes to rescue his people. He is the only-begotten Son, truly God and truly man. He is the King, the One who sits on Zion, God’s holy hill (v.6). His kingdom will never end, for He is risen from the grave. His authority will never be matched, for He sits at the right hand of the Father.

Now we see the reason why the nations rage and the people plot in vain. They “set themselves…against the LORD and against his Anointed” (v.2). They despise authority, saying “let us burst their bonds apart and cast away their cords” (v.3). A heart in love with sin will do everything it can to throw off the yoke of Jesus’ rule. We have all found ourselves in this raging, in this plotting: at some point before Jesus broke the brittle kingdom of our own hearts, we sought to reject God and live for ourselves. In other words, we acted as our own kings. A heart so puffed with pride will avoid God at all cost.

But praise be to God that He has invaded our lives. Jesus, the rightful ruler, crushed our crown of self-dependence by wearing one of thorns. He squelched our pride by humiliating himself. He took our sin by bearing the cross. This Jesus, this King, loves us. In response we “kiss the Son” (v.12). We bow down in trembling awe and joy. While the nations rage in rebellion, we rejoice in reverence. We know who is in control of our lives. We know who is in control of the world. 

Reader, is Jesus your King? Either you plot in vain against Him, or you surrender in love to Him. Daily He calls you to bring your petty, shifty, shaky kingdoms to Him, and bow to His firm, eternal, loving reign. There is nothing greater than to serve Him, to love Him, to worship and adore Him. For all who know this King, the promise is clear: “blessed are all who take refuge in him” (v.12).

 Trade your raging for refuge today in the rightful rule of Jesus. Amen.

Podcast #23 – Our Eternal Home (2 Cor. 5:1-5)

Text: 1 For we know that if the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. 2 For in this tent we groan, longing to put on our heavenly dwelling, 3 if indeed by putting it on we may not be found naked. 4 For while we are still in this tent, we groan, being burdened—not that we would be unclothed, but that we would be further clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. 5 He who has prepared us for this very thing is God, who has given us the Spirit as a guarantee.

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Outline:

V.1 – Our Eternal Home allows us to TAKE RISKS for God

V.2-4 – We DEEPLY LONG for our Eternal Home

V.5 – God prepares us for our Eternal Home through the HOLY SPIRIT

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Podcast #22 – Your Troubles are Light & Momentary (2 Cor. 4:16-18)

Text: 16 So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. 17 For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, 18 as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.

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Hard Things (Psalm 60:3)

You have made your people see hard things; you have given us wine to drink that made us stagger

Psalm 60:3

In David’s time it was very common for the corporate body of Israel to view the outcome of national or political events as either God’s favor or indictment upon them. In this psalm, which sits within the context of a military campaign, we find David (an individual) lamenting for his people (a corporate body). As Christians we can learn from this practice, although we should never apply it on such a strict basis as the Israelites did: for we are not under a theocratic nation-state as they were, but under the heavenly kingdom of the Spirit. Even still, this psalm clearly expresses a difficult time for the Israelites, and it applies to ours as well. 

First note the agent of the “hard things.” David does not hesitate to say it is God: “Lord, it is you who have made your people see hard things. God, you have given us this bitter wine!” As Christians, we must remember the sovereignty of our Lord. There is not one situation in which He does not exercise complete control, wisdom and direction over the outcome. He reminds us of this elsewhere through His prophet: “I form light and create darkness; I make well-being and create calamity; I am the LORD, who does all these things” (Isa 45:7). So we see that, as difficult as it may be in the “hard things,” God is in control of both our blessings and our brokenness, our triumphs and our tragedies, our laughter and our lament. When we are tempted to doubt God’s wisdom and goodness for what He allows in our lives, we must ask our souls like Job, “shall we receive good from God, and shall we not receive evil?” (Job 2:10). 

Second, we must be careful to note that this does not make God the author of evil. Evil as the absence of good is foreign to God’s nature. We are not talking about evil in the moral sense, but evil in the sense of disaster, calamity, strife, or suffering—the effects of living in a fallen world. What we see through David’s words is that God is able to use these various sufferings for our good. It is easy to believe that suffering is pointless; it certainly feels that way. But there was an immediate purpose for the staggering wine of affliction which God made His people drink. It was to make them trust in Him. Our “hard things” have a way of emptying our self-dependence and making us realize how frail and destitute we really are apart from God. Unless God shows up, we don’t know if we will be able to carry on. This makes us cling to God, and this is good. God’s purposes for our sufferings are often outside of our immediate view, but through grueling dependence we learn to say “whom have I in heaven but you?” (Ps 73:25). When everything is stripped away, only God remains. So we see that God has a purpose for our hard things.

Finally, we recollect the plural nature of this psalm: lament is done together. There were national events occurring which caused the Israelites to grieve. So too will there be events in our lifetime that should grieve the corporate body of Christ. On a smaller level, in our local bodies there will inevitably be hardships among our individual members. In these times we must remember that the sufferings of one impact the whole. Paul tells us to “rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep” (Rm 12:15). In your sufferings, then, you need the body of Christ; and in others’ sufferings, they need you. 

To end, the good news is that in our “hard things,” we have One who has walked the wasted roads of a fallen world with us, and for us. The Good Shepherd Himself wept at the grave, grieved loss, felt betrayal, was falsely accused, and took a piercing bed of thorns upon His head. This Jesus is Emmanuel—God with us. So no “hard thing” will remain that way. In reality, it is “light and momentary” (2 Cor 4:17, NIV), for we know that He is there with us, He has beaten death, and one day He will return to make all things new.